Gender
The beauty of the different genders is that it is designed so. The differences should draw us together, not alienate us. If we would agree that there are some basic differences, we might be able to appreciate each other.
Carol Gilligan in her book In Another Voice notes that women are morally shaped by three distinct areas: relationships, care, and responsibility. Men are morally shaped by justice, rules, and regulations. These basic differences note a contrast in our views, perspectives, opinions, and values. Instead of ostracizing each other because we fail to work at understanding each other, we must come together to embrace the majesty of these differences. Women and men are both unique, special, incredible, and bearers.
We must not allow the easy work of alienation to put a wall of divide between the sexes, rather we need to deconstruct the walls of social alienation between the sexes. This social alienation is contrived by the powers that be in order to suppress both sexes. You see, when one gender exploits another gender, both genders are the less. When one gender demeans the other gender, then both are trivialized. When on gender complains of the other gender's lack of understanding, ignorance prevails.
Now, the move of gender understanding that I encourage still leaves us lacking in both cases. We must never be absolutely dependent on the other gender for our basic needs. We were fashioned in such a way that human interaction, as powerful as it can be, still leaves us desiring more. We were never intended to be the sole (soul) providers for each other. There is a connection that can reach to the depths of our being and gives us what we thirst for.
Let us be about gaining the understanding we need of the different genders. The direction that our pursuit of gender understanding should be to contemplate more, oh so much more.
Carol Gilligan in her book In Another Voice notes that women are morally shaped by three distinct areas: relationships, care, and responsibility. Men are morally shaped by justice, rules, and regulations. These basic differences note a contrast in our views, perspectives, opinions, and values. Instead of ostracizing each other because we fail to work at understanding each other, we must come together to embrace the majesty of these differences. Women and men are both unique, special, incredible, and bearers.
We must not allow the easy work of alienation to put a wall of divide between the sexes, rather we need to deconstruct the walls of social alienation between the sexes. This social alienation is contrived by the powers that be in order to suppress both sexes. You see, when one gender exploits another gender, both genders are the less. When one gender demeans the other gender, then both are trivialized. When on gender complains of the other gender's lack of understanding, ignorance prevails.
Now, the move of gender understanding that I encourage still leaves us lacking in both cases. We must never be absolutely dependent on the other gender for our basic needs. We were fashioned in such a way that human interaction, as powerful as it can be, still leaves us desiring more. We were never intended to be the sole (soul) providers for each other. There is a connection that can reach to the depths of our being and gives us what we thirst for.
Let us be about gaining the understanding we need of the different genders. The direction that our pursuit of gender understanding should be to contemplate more, oh so much more.
